Thursday, September 20, 2012

TWO MONTHS IN BOTS!!!



Me and Fifi
 
Ngirl and I playing rock paper scissors to see who would serve first
 



Me with Ashley, Boikobo and Fifi watching the boys play
 

"The Great" hitting the ball. UB is in red/black
 
Greetings and salutations everyone!!! Hello once again. This will be my last blog post for a while as next week is mid semester break where I will be traveling to Namibia and then Victoria Falls. I have a lot of ideas of what I want to do while there like skydiving in Namibia, quadbiking at the sand dunes, bungee jumping at Victoria Falls and going on an elephant back safari ride!!! We will see how this all plays out but hope to do a lot of really cool activities and have a lot of exciting adventures!!! But until then let me recap the past week and half for you and for my own memories.
 My last post was a Wednesday so let me quickly recap my Thursday and Friday. Thursday started off to be a promising morning as I quickly caught a combi and was able to quickly walk from the combi stop at the station to the Main Mall. My internet at home has not been working so I had to go to Mascom (the internet and phone company) to work with them on the problem. Well, the line was short but this is Africa so of course my problem wasn’t solved. I did learn why my internet time wasn’t working though. I would buy 10 hours of internet time and after 2 hours or so the stick would run out. Apparently the company is charging me three times the amount of time I’m actually on. So if I’m on for a half hour, they charge me an hour and a half!!! Okay problem determined. Solution??? No way! They said it was a problem with the billing department and entire network and they couldn’t do anything that I would have to keep checking back and they would let me know. So this means that I am really out of luck for now. Have to keep bugging them and trying different stores to fix the problem which really stinks! The rest of the day was fine as usual. Class, homework/internet at school, volleyball practice, home. I actually made dinner tonight though. Nothing fancy but made pasta and a tomato/onion sauce. I loved it!!!
Friday I didn’t have class and was going to start my internship working with kids with disabilities in Tlokweng but the students at the school were busy preparing for the Special Olympics so they didn’t have time to meet with me. Instead, I am going to meet with them next week and hope to help out at the Special Olympics. Since I didn’t have class, I got to the gym early and worked out with a couple of my friends. I actually teach them fitness classes so we did a 40 minute spin class and 25 min step class! It’s really great to be able to teach even if it is just to my friends. After the gym and a wonderful hot shower (a precious commodity here!) I worked on a group project and then headed over to a computer lab to get internet and do some homework. After getting some work done we had a CIEE meeting to review our time in Kanye and plans for the rest of the semester. There is hopefully going to be some great ones including going to Serowe where there is a rhino sanctuary, camping out in Kauduane with bushmen, maybe visiting the salt pans, etc. All of this sounds so great but after looking at my schedule, my weekends are jam packed. I always thought that I would have my weekends off to travel and  explore the rest of the country but with volleyball and CIEE volunteer events and cultural excursions I have no idea when I am going to travel on my own. The only place that I have to squeeze in that I won’t hit through CIEE and other travels is a weekend in Joburg!!!
 Friday night was awesome as some of my friends and I went to Embassy which is this amazing Indian restaurant. I hate to say it but this was one of my favorite meals here in Botswana: Paneer cheese in a tomato/pepper sauce. How crazy is that?????
 I got up early Saturday morning and headed to UB for a volleyball game. But of course this was African time so even though I (and my fellow American players) got to school at 8:30 for the 9am game, the rest of the team showed up at 9:30 and the game actually started at 10/10:30. This wasn’t a huge deal except for the weather! People keep saying just wait that end of September/Oct/November it is hot, hot, hot. Yet I was freezing this morning. I had shorts and a jacket and between the wind, lack of sunshine and low temperatures, I had goosebumps a majority of the morning.
 Unfortunately I didn’t really play any of the game for some reason but instead sat on the bench watching. At first I was frustrated but had to let that go and just enjoy watching and hanging out with some of the boy vball players who were also watching. After the girls game, the boys played which was so much fun to watch. Not only are the boys more powerful and a better team than the girls, but the guys themselves are really great people. They are so funny and easy going and have some of the best cheers.
 After volleyball, my friends, Anthony and Charlotte, and I went to Food Lovers which is my new favorite store. It is basically the Botswana Whole Foods with granola, dried fruits, exotic fresh produce, etc. Loved it!! We went because they were coming over to make dinner and hang out. We ended up making chili, sweet potato biscuits and oatmeal-chocolate chip cookies. We had to use a lot of substitutions here but overall it was an awesome meal that we all thoroughly enjoyed!!!!
 Sunday I had nothing really on the agenda so I woke up and went for my first run here in Botswana. Boy is it different running here than in the US. First off, I only saw one other person running which actually surprised me. Also, I had to run basically along a highway because there aren’t running paths around as no one really runs for exercise. The rest of the afternoon was spent working on some homework, studying and then climbing Kgale Hill again with some friends. Kgale Hill is really the only trail I know of and because of the great views from the top is something I love doing so why not????
 Sunday night ended like it would in the states; everyone sitting down for dinner in front of a terrible movie. For some reason BTV (Botswana TV) and eBotswana play the worst American movies, the ones that even Americans have never heard of. On tonight was Detention which I strongly urge everyone not to watch. Still fun though sitting with my siblings and taking in another week in Bots.
 Monday rolled around just like all other Mondays. Gym in the morning, Setswana class and then lunch and an afternoon spent in the computer lab using the internet. The day ended with volleyball where not that many people (or the volleyballs) showed up so it was spent doing physical conditioning. Even though I got a little sweat going this was nothing like the US. It basically involved running short distances mixed in here and there with some sit-ups. Physical fitness is really different here in Bots then the US. At the Aerobathon a couple of weeks ago I was shocked at how fast the instructors moved, how quickly people caught on to the moves and how intense the classes were. Yet when I go to the gym it is rare to see people other than Americans on the treadmill. And if there are Batswana on the treadmill they are usually only on for like 5-10 minutes walking. Some times I see Batswana on the spin bikes but even that only lasts for a short time. Instead I mainly see people weight lifting. And at the volleyball courts watching the vball teams, tennis and basketball teams practice there isn’t really a lot of physical conditioning. The conditioning we did kind of reinforced how although Botswana is very developed for an African nation, it is years behind the US in terms of information. Weird way to say it so let me give an example. We were doing lemon squeezers (which is an abs workout where you bring your legs in and out as you sit in a V position on the ground) and in the states, the goal is try to keep your arms off the ground and legs up off the ground. However, I was doing this and got yelled at my coach and told to keep my legs on the ground actually making the exercise easier. And other times during our warm up they do a lot of very quick movements that actually hurt my back more than anything else and when I don’t do them get yelled at. During cool down I was scolded for not being able to get my forehead to my knee during hamstring stretches. The knowledge that everyone’s bodies are different and the kinesiology background that even recreational coaches in the US have is just not present here. I think a lot of this has to do with the fact that Bots is such a young country and much of the culture is modeled after what is seen on TV. What is seen on TV here is from the 1980s when a lot of these hurtful practices were popular.  However these are just my observations and experiences.
 When I got home I  met my aunt who was visiting for a few days. She looked so much like my grandma that had moved out and she was very similar! Over the next few days I constantly had my aunt telling me what I was doing. It was pretty weird. For example, I would wash dishes and she would say, “Julie! You are washing dishes” or “Julie! You are eating.” “Yes, I am eating” was my usual reply. I’m still a little confused as to why she stated what I was doing but it was nice to meet another family member.
 Tuesday I went to Old Naledi to volunteer with the kids again. I got there early enough to help the ladies prepare meals for both the poorer kids from the neighborhood and for kids from a local school. One meal consisted of samp which is similar to a hominy stew from home. I loved it!!!!! The other meal consisted of pap and spam which meant I had to open like 50 cans of spam. However, the spam cans are really cool here. Not sure if they are like this in the US but on top of the can is a piece of metal that looks similar to a key. Then after scraping the labeling off the can there is a little piece that gets pried up. Using the teeth part of the key, you connect the key and that small piece of metal and slowly begin to turn the key in effect unraveling and creating a cut around the entire circumference of the can.  It’s an ingenuous design.
The rest of the afternoon I spent the time hanging out the kids who still at times are fascinated with my hair and my skin color. I had a couple kids who couldn’t stop petting me while others just looked at my hands. Luckily today there was another volunteer who spoke Setswana and she translated some of the stuff the kids were saying which a lot of the times revolved around how white my skin is. There were some other kids who became obsessed with tickling me which was a lot better than the kids who would pinch my legs and pull my arm hair. I really have no idea why they pinch my legs and can’t tell if they are being mean or just playing-still trying to figure that out.
 
I skipped practice today because I went to RailPark (the mall at the station) to a different Mascom store to see if they could figure out why my internet wasn’t working. After waiting 45 minute because the system was down (shocker!) I talked to a representative who said the problem might be the modem and she gave me the name of the Stock Manager back at Main mall where I had been last Thursday! AARRGGGHH!!! I then headed over to Food Lovers to stock up for my trip and was so excited to get some dried fruits and granola!!!!
 Since I got home early I was able to do a lot of homework and walk Tshego to her friend’s house. Katie came home from her business trip and with her brought home a lot of meat from the cattle post in the village. While she was cooking Elt and I walked over to pick Tshego up from her friend’s house as it was dark by now. Walking home was a lot of fun even though it was only like a 10 minute walk. Tshego asked what was for dinner and I told her Katie was cooking at which both Tshego and Elt rolled their eyes. They explained that she takes forever to cook and that we wouldn’t eat for hours. I responded that she also had to water at which point Tshego said that someone (ie Elt) was going to be in trouble for not watering while Katie was out of town.  Just these small conversations and interactions made me smile and reminded me of how siblings should act, reminding me of Lanes and PJ and how the three of us interact.
 I was determined to get my internet fixed on Wednesday so after my morning classes I walked to Main Mall to the Mascom headquarters. I met with the stock manager who said he had to go try out my internet stick. After waiting 45 minutes he came back down and asked me to go upstairs to his office. Up in the office I worked with 3 other people who thought they figured out the problem (Wednesday night I realized they hadn’t and am therefore still without internet!).  Headed back towards campus, hit the gym then went to my 4pm class where the technology wasn’t working so class was cancelled.  Had volleyball practice where again I hated on my coach but had fun with the other girls. This week there are a lot of tests and papers due so practice has been really low key and poorly attended.
 
Thursday added excitement to my day. I woke up early to go to the gym but unlike every other day when I normally just walk in, today I was supposed to swipe to get through the turnstiles. That proved difficult as I never received my membership card and my membership expired a month ago! Since the turnstiles were broken before I never even thought about my membership fees and thought I would get away with just paying that one time. Oh well, luck ran out. I was luckily able to still work-out and have to pay my fees when I return from midsemester break! Rest of the day was normal but after volleyball, me and a couple of friends headed over to Marapula (neighborhood close to campus) to see the Mophato Dance Group perform. It was supposed to be a combination of African and modern dance. I enjoyed it but once again it showed how new this country really is and that it is still in the beginning stages in so many areas. Although the dancers were obviously very strong and powerful, the technique had not yet progressed to standards held in the states.  However, I still had a great night enjoying the culture of Bots!
 I was supposed to volunteer with the Special Olympics today (Friday) but because of the internet problems I am having and all the things I need to accomplish before leaving for Namibia I headed to campus instead. Unfortunately the person I was supposed to meet with at Mascom to fix my internet wasn’t going to be in today meaning I will have to tackle my intern problems when I return from Namibia. Later I am working with other CIEE students in Tlokweng to help set up for a stroke awareness event that will occur tomorrow. I was originally going to volunteer there but since there was a possibility of going to South Africa to play volleyball I had to find a replacement. However, I am no longer going to South Africa to play but am hoping to go to a wedding with my host mom. I can’t wait! Hope it all works out and I actually get to go! Then Sunday, up early and off for my next adventure in Southern Africa!
Longest post yet but I had a lot of time to cover. Next post should hopefully have some amazing pictures from my time traveling as well as some crazy stories! Hope all is well with the states! And happy birthday to my dad and brother!


Thursday, September 13, 2012

Kanye!!!


 First night in Kanye peeling potatoes using pocket knives!!

 Our makeshift kitchen for the week. This and a campfire is what we had. Oh and a mini-fridge!

Campfire complete with a mini fire, one working guitar, one not so working guitar and drums!

**MORE PICTURES BELOW-internet is so hard to use here so there is no way to format them*
 
Alright so time for another blog post. I’ll start with my typical warning about the length of these posts and that I certainly don’t believe that everyone has the time (or energy) to read the whole posts. Just pick up bits and pieces here and there if you are interest or just look at the pictures if you’d like (because let’s be honest, I would probably only look at the pictures!).  Sidenote: my internet at home is broken so I am limited to using the internet while at school.

This past week and a half has been great/crazy/weird!

Monday was nothing special except for Setswana class which is increasingly becoming more difficult and daunting. Although it is great to learn and understand more about the language it can so intimidating as my teacher, Nthati, will have conversations with individuals in front of the class so you are put on the spot. And if you haven’t practiced, she knows (I really need to practice!). As of right now we are going through helpful phrases and basic introductions of which there are many. Tough but a lot of fun.

Tuesday was my internship where the whole experience was better than last week. While walking there, along with being creepily proposed to, I had a couple little kids see me and just run up and hug me wanting me to swing them around. Then when I got to the school the little boy who I played with a lot last week sprinted to me and bounded into my arms. Whether or not he remembered me I’m not sure, but either way it was one of the feelings where you feel loved and appreciated. It really did warm my heart. Once at the school I helped out to make dumplings and stew and then chilled with the kids. Luckily I am getting a little less new and they are taking a little less notice of me meaning I don’t have so many jumping up my back and climbing all over which makes the experience much more enjoyable. I also saw one of the little kids I met a couple of weekends ago who remembered me because of my tattoo.  In terms of the internship work, I am developing a project with my advisor which I believe is going to combine aspects of nutrition with the physical activity of the kids. For many of the kids the meal they get at the center is the only meal they get all day so I would like to look at the nutritional properties and then their physical exertion. As well as develop games and fun activities I could do with the kids while they are waiting for food instead of having them run wild all over the place.

Wednesday overall was  a great day. I woke up freaking out that I lost my ipod and that it was stolen which severely dampened my mood. However, when I got to school I found it in a different pocket of my backpack. Then I received two letters; one from my mom/dad/sister and one from my grandma both of which put huge smiles on my face. After a great workout, me and some of my friends took Elt out to Nando’s for his birthday at main mall then spent some time running errands around main mall. After shopping and class back at UB, one of my friends came over to my house to make dinner and cookies. It was my first attempt at a Batswana meal and I took on dumplings which I didn’t think would be that hard but they literally came out like rocks that just sunk in your stomach. However, we all ate them and I actually liked them. Now I have three months to perfect my dumplings-had to start somewhere. I also made some great chicken and leafy greens—which I enjoyed. Then the real reason Ashley came over---chocolate chip cookies. We had to improvise since there is no brown sugar or baking soda here but overall they turned out great evidenced by my intense cookie dough induced stomach ache! It was a really fun night and put a smile on my face as I fell asleep.

Thursday and Friday came and went without any real excitement. However, I did learn that of a new internship possibility. Last week the aerobathon I participated in was organized by the Disabilities Services Center at UB and at the aerobathon I was introduced to the Deputy Director of the center at UB. I met with her on Friday and she explained that they had set up a program at Tlokweng (a suburb of Gabs) at a school for kids with various disabilities especially Autism and Down Syndrome.  UB recently bought the school a sound system but now need an instructor to come once a week to teach an hour long fitness class and work with the kids. Enter Julie. It sounded like a great opportunity so my internship changed from designing a program at Old Naledi to teaching classes to kids with special needs with the chance of arranging outings for them such as taking them horse back riding or swimming, etc. I am really excited about it and can’t wait to get started. I was supposed to go meet the students and teachers this upcoming Friday but they are busy getting ready for the Special Olympics (which I hope to help with) so will start my internship officially next Friday. I am planning on continuing to go to Old Naledi though to play with the kids and help make lunch but hope my frustration with the disorganization will lessen as there is no longer pressure to design a whole program for these kids.  The rest of Friday was pretty dull. That night was a really chill evening. After a low key volleyball practice where the girls and guys scrimmaged, my friend Anthony came over for dinner and dessert aka kettle corn courtesy of Ashley.

Saturday morning began the adventure of a four day cultural excursion to Kanye a village about 70 km from Gaborone. The trip started out like all trips in Africa do: late with a lot of unnecessary travel. They took us on two combis where the first combi had all the luggage strapped to the top until we got to the combi company’s hub where we took all the luggage off the roof and put it in a trailor. Then hooked up the trailor, drove to the gas/petroleum station to meet our guide in his pick up truck then back to the hub to transfer the luggage from the trailor to the truck. I need to write all this because it just gives you an idea of how things get done in such a round about way in this country!

On the way to Kanye we stopped at the Thamaga Pottery Exhibit where we were supposed to see pottery being made but being that it was a Saturday instead just looked around the shop. We then finally made it to Kanye where we would be staying at our guide, Kenny’s aunt’s house. The house had a large living area that had been converted into a huge dining room and then about four other rooms that were off-limits to us guests. Out in the yard there was an open area where we would pitch our tents, a kitchen and another storage house and then the toilets which were the long drop kind since there was no electricity or running water. Basically it looks just like a toilet but there is no flush and instead everything drops way down to the ground. However even this is a perfect example of how developed Bots is as in Uganda all the “toilets” were literally holes in the ground but here the toilet was built up and could be sat upon.

Although the house and area seemed nice, from the very first hour we got there we knew that we were in for some rough times ahead. This was made evident by the fact that it was already 1:30 and there was still no sign of lunch. When lunch did show up it was oranges and halves of tuna sandwhiches which were more bread than tuna. After our snack we started setting up camp, pitching our tents and setting up our quarters. However, in the midst of the tent preparations we learned that there was nothing for dinner. It turns out Kenny’s mom was bringing the food from Gaborone and they had no idea of when she would arrive. So, a couple of CIEE kids went to the local supermarket and with their own 200 (around 30 bucks) bought dinner for over 20 people. As soon as the kids got back everyone got to work cooking and doing our best to ensure that we would eat something. The only problem was that we were making chicken and had to make it in a small wok over a campfire. While I was on chicken duty other kids were making coleslaw and mashed potatotes. Since we had to do the chicken in rounds basically everyone  started eating except me and a couple of other kids who were watching the last chicken cook. This ended up working in our favor because the last round of chicken was the most flavorful and we got all the leftover mashed potatoes and coleslaw. After we had all cleaned up Kenny’s mom finally showed up with the food! Whew!!!

The next morning after preparing our breakfast (eggs, cereal and toast) we all dressed up and headed to church in Kanye. We headed to one church, then were told we were going to the Mosque and then passed the mosque and headed to a Roman Catholic Church founded in 1795. The service was really interesting even though it was in Setswana. They had a couple of locals come to sit with us and explain everything that was going on which helped immensely. The service was similar to that in the states; songs, announcements, a sermon, welcoming of visitors (meaning we all had to go to the front of the church and introduce ourselves to the entire congregation, around 200 people!!!).  I found the entire service to be really interesting even though it was pretty long.

After church we headed back for lunch which we again had to plan and prepare. After lunch, we then had a couple of hours to relax so we just hung out on the porch talking and playing music, etc. Then Kenny gave a lecture on religion which was very interesting. What was so interesting was not only the topic as there are various religions in Botswana each with specific customs and traditions but how Kenny put his personal bias into his lecture.  He was talking a lot about African Traditional Religion (ATR) which has a heavy focus on the importance of ancestry and includes both animal and human sacrifice. According to Kenny child sacrifice is a component of ATR to this day and the government does nothing to protect these children. He used a lot of “it’s crazy man” and actually blamed TV for a lot of the wrongdoings in religion in Botswana. I took everything he said with a grain of salt but again thought it was a really cool lecture and viewpoint.

We then made dinner which was a huge brai which is basically a Batswana barbeque that usually consists of bbqing various types of meats. Tonight we had sausage and some steak along with pap and bogobe which my friend Charlotte and I were in charge of making. I had made it a couple of times before but it was good to practice and see if I could make it on my own. We also lucked out because we had dessert (fruit salad with marshmallows) and pound cake. We ended the evening with a campfire and drumming ceremony and stargazing. I also slept ten times better than I did the night before. This may have been because our tent was on a hill and the first night some of us slept with our heads on the bottom part of the hill so the whole night I was slipping and slowly easing down the hill. Tonight though I corrected my mistake and with the help of my wonderful eyemask, slept great!!!

Monday started off again with cooking and a filling breakfast of cereal, toast, eggs and bacon!!!! We then dressed up and headed over to the kgotla of Kanye. I think I’ve mentioned it before but a kgotla is basically the meeting house of the village where the chief (kgosi) rules on various disputes of the village. There is a very strict dresscode and set of traditions when entering the kgotla so all the girls have to wear skirts past their knees, close toed shoes, covered shoulders, a head covering (sometimes) and when sitting in the kgotla cannot have their legs crossed. When we got to the kgotla of Kanye the kgosi wasn’t around and they didn’t know we were coming (shocker since nothing had been really planned) so our assistant director Tanya had to become the tour guide/translator. It turns out the kgotla we went to was the smaller kgotla and there was a larger one on the other side of town. However we were still able to sit in the kgotla and some of the volunteers tried to explain various traditions. For example, they always end and start a meeting with prayer, anyone can come to have the kgotla settle disputes, the punishments range from a fine to a lashing (4 lashings is max) and they have a ceremonial fire that burns in the middle that everyone has to be careful to walk around and not pass. And next to the kgosi there was actually a cattle lost and found. When there is unclaimed cattle wandering the streets of Kanye they bring them to this pin where the owners have to come get them. Funny, huh??

We headed back to camp to prepare lunch which was again a time-consuming yet fun activity. Today we made pasta, butternut squash, salad and chicken which I marinated, thank you very much! At first it looked like again the afternoon was going to be comprised of nothing but playing cards but we ended up going to the museum of Kanye which was kind of a museum. It was basically two rooms with a couple of pictures of the chiefs and a room of various tools that bushmen use. I did learn that the totem animal for the people of Kanye is the crocodile and during the traditional cheifing ceremony, the new chief will have a leopard fur placed over them because leopards are one of the most powerful and dangerous animals. After this short tour we headed to a lookout point where you can see the beginning of the Kalahari dessert. However, on the short hike up to the top of the lookout point I had to use the restroom so badly that a friend and I waited until the group had left then took dropped and squatted. I only write this in because this is the first time of the whole trip that there has not been a bathroom provided just to show you how really developed and urbanized Botswana really is.

The view from the top of the hill was great but what was even better was Kenny’s lecture at the top. He was going on and on about various cultures but went on a sidetrack about how TV is once again the cause of many problems in Botswana and that nutrition is affecting young children. He believes that there is too much protein in the diet (highly unlikely as I am always hungry and looking for protein) and that it is the reason that young people are developing earlier and having sex earlier, getting pregnant earlier, etc. He believes that their ancestors knew what was right and had the right diet in mind and that the Batswana have strayed too far. I don’t really agree with this idea of nutrition causing pregnancies but it was again interesting to see his viewpoint.

This was our last night in Kanye so we once again cooked and cooked when we got back and tried to eat all the food that was bought. We had pasta, gravy, grilled vegetables, sausages, steak, pap and seswaa (pounded meat). There was a bit of tension in the group at this point as there was alcohol provided and some people were worried that the situation would get out of hand. However, it ended up being a great night. Some people went down to the campfire while others, including myself and three others, hung out in the house telling stories and chatting.

We got up early on Tuesday morning to take apart our tents, pack up and eat breakfast before the combis showed up to take us back home. However, on the way back to Gaborone we stopped again at Thamaga pottery hoping that we could see some potters at work. Lucky enough, we did so we were able to watch some of the women there throw and paint clay.  After watching and buying some pottery we headed home.  I got home around noon and since I had the whole house to myself took my time taking a bath to wipe the dirt from the past four days off. I was so dusty and dirty that what I thought was originally tan turned out to be grime. I also did laundry by hand which was gross as the water was black after I took the clothes out. You don’t realize how much dust and dirt there is in the air and on your clothes until you do laundry! I still had time before everyone got home so was going ot make chocolate chip cookies but the store had to chocolate so instead made sugar cookies and then did some homework. I ended the day by cooking dinner for my family of pap, chicken and greens.

Wednesday was back to business as usual. The day went by normal as always except that I learned that there is a chance that next Saturday the 22nd (Happy Birthday Dad) the volleyball team might be traveling to South Africa for a tournament. This will be the day right before I leave for Namibia and it is still up in the air but how cool would that be!!!!

To end my Wednesday I came home from volleyball and was walking to my house from my combi stop only to almost be trampled by a herd of cows. It was dark and I heard the cow bell but wasn’t sure where they were until I turned a corner and saw about 20 heading my direction. I had no idea what to do and wasn’t sure if they could see me or were going to run me over so I ran over to a tree and hid by that. Apparently someone was trying to get them to move by throwing rocks at them so they passed at a pretty rapid speed. But, aaayy, only in Botswana!!


So wrapping it up because this is the longest post yet! This weekend was great and it taught me a lot about Americans more than anything. The people I hang out with are so different from my friends back home. They are the outdoor loving, backpacking, climbing, Teva/Chaco wearing kids that I used to think I had nothing in common with. And yet here I am hanging out with them, loving them, forming some amazing friendships and loving my time with them. I grew up a different lifestyle, enjoy different things, play different sports and yet as a group we all get along. I never thought that on this trip to Botswana I would learn so much about Americans!!!


Miss everyone back home, thanks for reading and go siame!

** Heads up a big shout out to Charlotte Cloyd for some of her awesome photos!!
 Sunset in Kanye
 
 Making pap for the troops
 

 Listening to Kenny at the Kanye Museum
On the top of our short hike to view the beginning of the Kalahari desert
 
 NOT in Kanye but in my kitchen making dumpling dinner!
 
 View of Kanye from the top of the hill
 The main house where we ate our meals and cooked
 
 Our sleeping quarters for the trip
 
Me and Mariella on our way back from the Kgotla

Monday, September 3, 2012

Getting Comfortable in Bots

 Me with Amantle Montsho at the BNSC gym on Monday

 Cutest little monkey chilling on the tower

 Me and Taha at the Aerobathon with our awesome "free" t-shirts


 Baboon family I saw when walking home from Kgale Hill



Gorgeous rose that Elt drew me as a thank you gift for the present I gave him for his birthday

Hello everyone. Time for another blog post. Again, I know I write a ridiculous amount but I am using this blog as a journal for myself as well and therefore write in way more detail than is necessary. Thanks for taking the time to check it out!

Monday was the same as most of my Mondays; get up around 8, head to the gym, Setswana class, homework then volleyball and home. However, the gym was awesome. As I was doing some weightlifting in the corner of the gym, in my periphery I see this very lean, muscular woman walk in and start doing some deadlifts with a man, who I assumed to be her trainer, instructing her. I didn’t really think anything of it and assumed she was just a bodybuilder or competitive weightlifter.  However, I then went into the aerobics room to use a spin bike and saw her again this time running some sprints. When I saw her from the front, I thought she was Botswana’s Olympian, Amantle Montsho and wasn’t sure until I saw her run some short sprints. From her speed and the fact that another gym goer took a picture of her I knew it was for sure Amantle Montsho who finished fourth in the 400 meters in London. I was so excited that I stopped her and asked if I could take a picture with her. When else would I be able to meet an Olympian??? She was really nice and agreed and listened tome speaking a mile a minute even if she didn’t understand anything I was saying. It was awesome!! The gym I train at is the Botswana National Sports Commission gym and it turns out that she trains at this one too==New best friend and gym buddy!!

Tuesday was one of those overwhelming days that just takes so much out of you. I had to go to Old Naledi for my internship and the whole experience is very draining and exhausting. Even the transportation there and back is hard; not physically but emotionally. Since I was traveling by myself to a more at risk area I was on “high alert” the entire time constantly aware of my surroundings and looking over my back. Once at Old Naledi I helped the volunteer women to open cans and cans of spam that they were going to fry up for the kids. They had also made porridge out of melon and allowed me to try some which was fantastic. Once we had finished cooking I went outside to play with the kids which although was fun, was very overwhelming. Since I was the only one playing with them today they were all over me. If I was anywhere close to a table or bench they would launch themselves at my back. Even after moving away from tables they were still climbing up my legs. At one point I was sitting at a picnic table playing with kids who were sitting on the top and before I knew it I had kids playing with the scabs and bruises on my legs. I tried organizing some games but it is so difficult when none of the adults nor do the kids speak any English and there was no one there to help me demonstrate. It’s going to be a really tough job just providing some structure and preventing the kids from running all over me (literally and figuratively).  I also had one of those shocking, make you really upset but not sure what to do moments. I saw a little boy, probably around the age of 7 sit next to a little girl with a backpack and slowly begin to unzip her backpack to steal her book. This is exactly what the thieves do on bridges and in malls here. It was so upsetting to see that at such a young age kids are thieving and learning how to steal from others. The day didn’t get much better once I went to school for volleyball. Practice (or as they call it “training”) was fine but I had to travel home in the dark by myself which meant once again I was on “high alert.” By the time I got home I just felt so overwhelmed and exhausted from always feeling like a target and having the belief that everyone is going to mug me even though I know this not to be true.

When I got home I had to call my dad and just distress from such an exhausting day and go over all the highs and lows. Yes it was hard to be jumped on, pulled and played with all day but on the other-hand maybe I made one kid’s day a little better. A lot of these kids don’t get any attention at home so if for five minutes I paid they some attention and they felt special then great! I mean one of these kids was so neglected that his hair was growing so long and getting so matted that one of the volunteer cooks took scissors and literally cut all his hair off.

Wednesday and Thursday passed along. Thursday was Elt’s birthday so although I didn’t see him in the morning I left him a present for him to open when he got home from work. He likes to sketch so I bought him a sketchpad and a shading pencil kit.  He wasn’t home when I got home but I saw his thank you present taped to my wall; a beautifully sketched rose which put a huge smile on my face. My smile grew throughout the evening as my cousin, Onthatile, taught me how to make dumplings for dinner. It was really easy and yet mine came out like thick, lumps of dough whereas hers are always light and fluffy. She, however, was leaving the next day for good and so now it’s up to me to be the dumpling maker.

Although I didn’t have class on Friday I headed over to the UB to go the gym and then to meet up with some friends to walk to the Gaborone Game Reserve which is about a half hour walk from campus. Along the walk we did see the cutest little monkey chilling on a telephone tower. The only problem was that was the only animal we saw all day. When we got to the reserve it turns out you need to have your own car to enter and drive around. We had heard that students from UB had just walked around on foot-it turns out that they had snuck under the fence to do so. Oh well. We had high hopes of seeing something along the fence but unfortunately that monkey from earlier was the only animal of the day.

Later Friday night a lot of kids from my program headed over to Airport Junction (another mall) to try a sushi restaurant. Although the food was good and it was nice to have a break from carbs and stewed meat, it really wasn’t worth what we paid (110 pula which is about $16 which doesn’t seem bad but when you eat at the cafeteria on campus its only about 15 pula). Oh well, nice to try out new places!!

Saturday was a day of high and lows. CIEE required us to do a cultural excursion activity and we had the option of going to a local village (Ramotswa) to watch a Bogwera (boys initiation/coming of age ceremony) or participate in an aerobathon. Before knowing I had a second option I had agree to do the aerobathon letting the event coordinators know that I am a fitness instructor. In the end, only a handful went to the aerobathon. It turned out to be a lot of fun and literally we just took aerobic classes all day. There were about 15 kids there with disabilities that we helped dance with too. But boy let me tell you, these classes are nothing like the ones I teach—they are f-a-s-t!!!! Fast footwork, fast upper-body, fast teaching. The energy was out of this world!!!!!! There were people from some aerobic club and they picked up the footwork immediately and put their own spin on it! It was great to be part of such an amazing group. Also there is a chance that I can intern with the program that put on the aerobathon. They apparently want to do a lot more aerobics at UB so it would be cool if I could switch my internship to working with them and just volunteer at Old Naledi.  Although I had a great time it really made me miss UMD and ignited a huge wave of homesickness. I have been really proud of myself keeping it together but the combination of aerobics and missing UMD Terps first soccer game on Friday really put me down. After moping for a bit at home, Elt came home and we ate dinner together then did the laundry. BUT low and behold one of my pairs of pants bled into the other clothes ruining some of my shirts, darn!!!

Sunday came around and was really one of the first days where I had no plans whatsoever. By the time I got up and changed, only Elt and I were around so I made him and myself pancakes and we watched “Forgetting Sarah Marshall” together. Elt is obsessed with borrowing my movies and going through watching as many as possible. After the movie Elt and I spent some time exchanging music (and by exchange I mean I give him my music) before we both had to get going. He was going to the hospital and I decided to walk to Kgale Hill and climb it again this time by myself. It was a great decision! Walking there is about a 40 minute walk and then to the top of Kgale Hill last time took a an hour and a half but today only took me 40 minutes. I found the shorter way to the top which is a lot steeper and involves a lot rock climbing skills but it was great! The view from the top makes it so wonderful-I literally just laid out on a rock overlooking the city for over an hour! It was such a refreshing and rejuvenating  day!  I did have a little scare though when walking back from the trailhead to the mall and path back to my house. There was a family of baboons that decided to chill on both sides of the road. I had heard that baboons are ferocious and I literally had no idea what to do. So like every American would, I snapped some photos. But not before I quickened up my pace and walked in a zig zag pattern to avoid walking so close to them, As I neared the mall a lady asked if I was enjoying myself and she said just to be careful as they tend to beat people up. When I asked Elt what to do if a baboon attacks he said he didn’t know but he would let it beat him up then go home. Tshego said she didn’t know but she doesn’t suggest throwing anything at them because they will pick it up and throw it back with good aim. She said maybe play dead but be careful cause they might carry you away! This is AFRICA!

After coming home and doing a little bit of homework I made dinner with Elt and then we all ate in front of the TV as usual. However I did get reprimanded by Tshego for not making her pancakes after she has been wanting them so while she was washing the dishes I made her and my host mom pancakes that they could eat for breakfast in the morning. While I was cooking though, grandma comes in and says something in Setswana which I was told was, “Julie-cook and dish for me” meaning I had to make her pancakes too! Crazy!!!

Thinking over my past week here I have learned so much about myself and about the ways of Africa. I am a lot more independent and stronger than I gave myself credit for but I also have so much more learning to do about who I really am. I find myself thinking so much about other’s perception of me and constantly feel like people are talking about me and looking at me differently as I walk around town. Could they be talking about me? Yes. Are they? Who knows but I need to be more confidant in myself to not let the fact that people are talking about me bother me OR I need to focus less on myself and not believe that I am so interesting that I become the topic of conversation. The fact that I look different has had a much larger effect than I ever thought it would have. It’s something I have to grow to become comfortable with believing that though I might look different, people don’t necessarily think of me differently. And this is for sure a process and part of acclimating to a new society with different social customs and norms. For example the idea of personal space is basically nonexistent here in Bots. While waiting in line it is normal to have the person behind you directly on your back literally breathing in your ear. It’s normal to push against a person to get into the combi or have someone touch your arm when talking to you. I mean people here hold hands for the longest time-it’s actually pretty hard to break off a handshake (there are like 5 ways of handshaking too!).  And it’s normal to see two guys holding hands walking through the street, not because they are a couple but because that is what is done here.  So the whole point of this post and last paragraph is that for me, acclimating to a new culture has taught me almost more about my abilities, strengths and weaknesses then it has about the culture itself. It’s only been a month and I already feel that I have grown in so many ways. Alright, enough is enough!!!

Next post won’t be for a couple of weeks as on Saturday I am leaving for a 5 day cultural excursion trip through my program! Pictures are at the top of the blog as usual as well as all over my facebook page! Check it out and boroko (good night)!